Radio 4 recently reported an interesting story about new Internet billing software which disables your machine by issuing so many pop-up reminders about your outstanding payments that your computer becomes unusable. It’s currently being tried by the developers, MBS, and is used mostly on, unsurprisingly, porn sites. From what I can gather – I don’t remember all the details – it asks you to check a box indicating that you would like a free trial period on the site, but in doing so, you agree to the terms and conditions that you will receive the pop-ups. Of course, that clause is on page 20 of the terms and conditions which no one ever reads anyway. And these pop-ups aren’t those we were all too familiar with in the pre-Firefox days, either; they’re the type, apparently, that you can’t close and that are so memory intensive, your computer can’t function. Until you agree to pay, that is. My thoughts on this are predictable – that such things really should be more closely regulated – but they are not the point of this post.
The point is this: one lady interviewed by Radio 4 was complaining about this software because it had disabled her husband’s computer. She and he were obviously very upset by what had happened, but I was both embarrassed and amused by the way she told her story. Her husband had had a five minute moment of madness, apparently, when he decided that he would like to seek out some pictures of ‘nude women’ on the internet. He went to this site in what really must have been a moment of madness (she repeated), and checked the text box agreeing to the terms and conditions. She just doesn’t know what he was thinking! (I do!) He was plagued by pop-ups and eventually had to come clean to both his wife and his employer (he was using his work computer). Bless!
Now seriously! In what world does Mrs. Moment of Madness think that this is the first time that Mr. Moment of Madness has looked at porn. It’s not! It’s the first time he’s been ‘caught’ by you, but it is not the first time he’s accessed porn. I would stake my life, and yours, on this. It was so obvious from her voice that she absolutely wanted to believe what she was saying, and that she wanted the listener to believe it too, but her doubt was evident. She’s hurt, angry and probably a little humiliated at what she’s discovered, and I’m sure that she wants to believe her husband was possessed by something shocking at the time, but we all know that’s not true. I feel bad for her, but she’s not fooling anyone, including herself.
The moral of the tale: Middle England ain’t ready for porn. And it certainly ain’t ready for an MBS billing system. (Oh, and always read the terms and conditions!)
I do hope that Mr. and Mrs. Moment of Madness get through this, but I dare say he’s in the spare room for now. Possibly along with his laptop.
Oh dear, I am in stitches!
I remember telling one of my younger work colleagues (who had recently found her boyfriend had looked at porn) that it almost definitely wasn’t the first time and probably wouldn’t be the last. She was horrified! She now realises that I was right
Hey, you never know. If it were my mother regarding my father, she would seriously/genuinely believe that it was ‘a moment of madness’, Some people are really that innocent/deluded.
I take question that it was all but “five minutes.” Ah, er, nevermind. I take that back.
Sad too that this woman had to use a major media outlet as a platform for her self-convincing. A meeting with a friend at Starbucks would seem like a better alternative.
Do we really have to read all that fine print? I suppose so, dammit.
At least he’ll have some peace and quiet in the spare room with his lap top…
A, always happy to amuse.
For sure! Bless them! I’m so glad I’m not naive about these things.
Yeah, for sure, Jaded. Perhaps it’s not the most incredible delusion.
Yeah, really Doug. Perhaps she was thinking that the humiliation was worth it to highlight the issue. Still, though, ouch!
Blue, how callous of you!
Well, I’d hate to disappoint…
How come they never interview people who say things like: “I’m an unashamed consumer of perfectly legal pornography, and I’m not going to stand for this crap!”
Next time the Daily Mail wants to do an article on internet filth, send the ‘journalist’ my way.
Er… or even Radio 4. Lord knows how I got the Daily Mail into my head while I was reading your story about an up-tight middle England housewife….
Will do, LC. I suppose there wouldn’t be a great deal of point, in this instance, of interviewing someone who said, ‘Yes, I was glad of the pop-ups because without them, I would never have remembered to pay my subscription. Tally Ho. Har Har Har.’
Well I’ve certainly never heard of the two being linked before!
Perverts usually marry gullible people. Smart people would be on to them and ruin their “moments of madness”
UM
Hey missy, an incentive for you to stop trying to get David from me… I have nominated you as a Rockin’ Girl Blogger. Can you let me have him to myself now?
You know, for that, I will! I’m rather astounded of your opinion of me, but thanks. And it’s all true, of course!
Hear hear, LC! Apparently we’re “perverts” now. Too funny for any more words.
hahaha! Marcus, I didn’t respond to that comment because I really couldn’t tell what way to go with that one!